Probably the last post of wedding prep

I was on leave for a week. It was a super busy week as expected. We traveled KL-Seremban almost everyday throughout the whole week. @.@

We went to Avillion for the food testing and finalize the dinner thingy. Collected the wedding favor which is a shot glass designed by ourselves :D. Met relatives and friends to give them the invitation cards. Went to church to settle the booklet. Collected photo album which also printed wrongly and gotta send back to the bridal studio for rectifying. Prepare the dowry. Do planning for the actual day rundown. Meet up with actual day photographer for discussion.......

Finally it's the finale of our wedding preparation, can't wait for the party in 2 weeks time. ^_^y

Life of Pi

Finally watched the Life of Pi; in fact I read this book few years ago but couldn't remember it touched my heart so much as the movie do. 

If you have read some of the explanation of the movie online, you'll probably know the metaphor of the story and the message it want to bring out. Yes, so it's about questioning the existence of God, or rather to me it's about what you choose to believe. 

Pi had a very depressing encounter on board but he tells his story differently with tiger, zebra, hyena and orangutan. Is knowing which story is true important? No, it's about you choose to believe the first story so you make yourself feels better. So, do you still question about the existence of God? Is that really matter? What matter the most is the faith in God and that gives you strength.

Life of Pi gives me the same message as Big Fish; you choose what you believe and you choose your life. Yeah, so life can be boring, tough or even depress; but you choose your way to cope with grief and loss. I chose mine. I'm not a religious person but I chose to believe my parents are still watching me, I chose to believe they know I have got married and they are happy for me, and I chose to believe, one day I will meet them again somewhere up there. 

Quote from Pi : All of life is an act of letting go but what hurts the most is not taking a moment to say goodbye 

pa, ma.. I miss you.. If only I can rewind the time, I want to take a moment to say good bye to you and tell you how much I love you.

some humble DIY handicraft for wedding :)

If I were to name one hobby I cultivated since I start preparing my wedding, it would be making handicraft. No, I'm still not good in it but I start having fun with it.

So, what exactly have I DIY? here you go..

Thanks to Chai Har, I was introduced this shop called Kaison in Paradigm Mall. I bought the items above in this shop and it's quite cheap. The flowers cost RM3.50 for a bunch of 6 stalks. The bird cage Rm28.90 and the flower basket? RM4.99!! 

Then I bought the other materials shown above mainly from Daiso - glue gun, ribbon, "fur thread", and fake flower pedals... Of course it took me many times of retry and here's the end products...

The cost for all the 4 flower baskets above are less than RM50.. or not RM40.. It will be used by Danny's and my nieces as flower girls while we walking down the aisle at our Church wedding ceremony. Although it is not as pretty as those selling in wedding shop, but imagine how much have I save from the 4 flower basket above which each of it can easily cost RM20-40 from the shop. And the best thing is I can design it all in pink to match with the dresses of my flower girls. :)

The time consuming part is the ribbon which stitched up like lace then glue on the edge of the basket later on. I remember I did this until 4am! yawn~~ it remind me why I didn't like doing handicraft. :p  

Next, is the bird cage. I got the idea of using bird cage as ang pow box from internet. All the materials I bought to decorate the bird cage are inexpensive. Aside from the bird cage itself, I bought the flower with leafs from Daiso which cost only RM5, then the card board and blue felt which all cost only few ringgit. This DIY is super easy, just circle the bird cage with the flower and blue ribbon in the center, then cut the two love birds from felt and "D" and "T" from cardboard. The difficult part is to find the blue flower which I have been searching for many many shops before I found it from Daiso in IOI. Blue simply due to my dinner theme colour is in baby blue. :)

Actually at this point I'm pretty much done with my DIY idea after the two items above. Until I find myself with extra 300++ invitation cards at home due to the printing error from my printing shop. Before that, the design of the wedding invitation is from Danny and me as well with the idea from internet. Then I don't know shall Danny and I considered ourselves lucky or what, but the printing shop has done some mistake of the printing TWICE! End up they reprint the cards for us TWICE (thank god for free) and that's how we got the extra 300++ invitation cards with us. While I'm complaining the  printing shop to Chrys when I gave her the card, thanks to her by giving me idea in making paper fan with the extra cards. :D

At first I wanted to use the ice-cream stick which apparently called wooden spatula, but find out it's too thin to hold the card firmly, then I came out the idea to use the "wooden stick used by doctor to examine throat" which apparently named tongue depressor. LOL... see how much I learnt from doing all these handicraft.

Here is only about 10 finished products and I'm gonna work really hard the next time I return to KL to finish the rest of the 300. @.@

Now I still have lots of left over ribbons and thinking to make some corsages with it. I've tried making few but it's all .. errrhhh.. unlovely.. Still finding ideas and let's see will I give up in the end, hehe :p

wei wei wei wei lei gam fei

Just weight myself again this morning. OMG, I've slimmed down further again although I didn't hit the gym for the past 2 weeks!

1,2,3,4......(counting with my fingers)....I've shed away total of 6kg since I started my exercise regime and diet plan 6 months ago. ^_^

I'm satisfied with the result but it's not the best yet; perhaps due to my diet, I've not reduced much of my body fat percentage although I exercise a lot. Btw, there is only 2 months left to my wedding, it's too risky to change my diet plan now, so I will only increase my food intake after my wedding hoping for more toned muscle. :).

Resolution for 2013 set!

Don't try to understand this post

Upset; just got to know something I found fishy for years was actually what I thought to be. And knowing the truth is not always a pleasant thing although I can finally stop questioning myself. Positively, my gut feeling is reliable and I should listen to it more often from now on.

Simple is a bliss. I couldn't agree more... for once again..

快乐是自找的，不快乐也是自找的。

Our Registration of Marriage

Finally, the day has come, Danny and I are now legally married. 

The ROM took place in JPN @ Seremban, the venue is nothing fancy and we didn't invite any friend of us. The whole process is fast, I'm sold within one hour and nothing much to be elaborated. However, I'm feeling blessed for having my family with me on this big day of mine, and all the blessing from my beloved friends and family on fb or text. Thanks again and it truly means a lot to me.

So now I'm on the first page of a new chapter of life; the top resolution for this new chapter is not to forget and misplace my ring; although I have slim hope in this but I promise will try my best. :p

By the way, DANNY AND I ARE NOW HUSBAND AND WIFE. I must keep repeating this to myself to make me believe this is real. This person that had nothing to do with me before we knew each other has now become the most important person in my life. I know this might be lame but look what amazing fate done to us, he will be the father of my future child. Marriage is for life so this is just the beginning, we are gonna spend the rest of our life together, I know we will support each other through our walk together, for better or for worse.

Now one more down and only the reception dinner to go. Honestly I'm getting a bit bored with the wedding preparation, how I hope this is the end of it and we can fast forward to the honeymoon part. :p

I now pronounce you husband and wife

 

 

 Thanks for coming

My dear sis and bro, the person I can always count on.

Thank you dear for the flower. I thought it's ok not to have flower that's why I didn't remind you. Never expect you will buy it though. :p 

Wedding Prep #3 - custom made bridal shoes

If shopping for wedding bands is fun, then shopping for my bridal shoes are frustrating! I have never been crazy in shoes all my life; it's not because I don't love pretty shoes, it's just simply due to I am having an abnormally small feet where I can hardly find a pair of shoes that fit my UK size 3 feet comfortably, let alone a pretty pair.

While I was frustrated in searching for my bridal shoes all around KL & SG, then I come across a contact for high heels customization! Without a second thoughts, I called the number then meet up with the lady then chose my design... then tada!! in 2 months time, I got my custom made high heels!!

my fish mouth pumps with Swarovski, so bling I likey! :)

The photo above was sent by the lady cobbler, I have not collected it from her yet. I've tried the size before though and it fit perfectly on my feet, omg it feel so nice I've not gotten any shoes that can fit my feet so perfectly before. Sorry you people having normal sized feet cannot understand this. :p. Btw, it's too early to judge whether it's really comfy but from the review of her customer, I believe it is. Yes, I'm happy. :D

PS : This is the contact of the cobbler  - 

https://www.facebook.com/moments.shoe

 

Wedding Prep #2 - our wedding bands ^^

It's been surreal, and it is still that Danny and I are getting married, but omg why time flew so fast we are taking our pre-wedding photography next week then our ROM in the week after next. Ok la, actually I'm not that gan jeong since we've been given ourselves ample of time for the wedding preparation, and things have been progressing well which gives me no reason to gan jeong; in fact I've started to lose my patience and hope everything can be fast forward a little bit.

So, we are just weeks away from our ROM and we got our wedding bands just in time; with the engraving of our name & ROM date on it. Btw, wedding band hunting is so fun!! Well I guess girls will never have problem dealing with shopping. :p. And I love my wedding bands soooooooooooo much!!!!! Here you goes

Danny's on the left, mine on the right

Danny doesn't want the photo of his fingers published. :p

 Mine! ♥ ♥ ♥

 Family portrait ^__^

 Love it!!

Wedding Prep #1 - Venue booked

It's been more than half a year Danny and I were preparing our wedding. Now we are 2 months away from photoshooting, 3 months from ROM, then 5 months from the actual day. I think we started planning it too far ahead and we've lost the momentum. Hence my advise, 6 months preparation is fine and more than that will only give you more excuse to procrastinate. :p
 

Enroll the "Catholic Marriage Preparation Course" is definitely the first thing we need to do. Then the next thing on top of our list is to book the venue. Initially I was reluctant to have a reception dinner for my wedding, simply because I don't like the idea of making a show out of my wedding (you know what I mean), anyway I was convinced (of course by Danny) in the end but I'm still looking for something special, an intimate dinner which is not too formal so I can still have time to catch up with my guests. And most important is to make everyone enjoy themselves. There we choose the Avillion at Port Dickson. Ahhhhh~~ I'm going to have my wedding on the beach! It's like a dream comes true to me. I think I have a lot of dreams have came true, I know I'm lucky, I'm counting my blessing. :)
 

Then the next thing is booking a pre-wedding photoshooting package. Danny and I don't really fancy this, so we just sign a very basic package in the wedding fair without much survey. It's really basic that it only includes 1 photo album, 1 medium sized photo frame, limited number of gowns for both photoshooting and actual day, and even without the "ji mui" photo. Hehe. Now we are 2 months away from the photoshooting and I'm looking forward too. I want to take the photo with Goppy!! 

homesick

Third month in SG and I'm getting homesick now. Is that just me or Singapore is really boring, probably just  because I have no friends and family here. I have no idea how I ended up in this city and why do I have to start new life considering I'm no longer a young and energetic lad.

I miss my crib, I miss Goppy and of coz I miss my friends and family.

Marriage Preparation Course - Class 4

The class #4 was the most embarrass topic; it's "Sex in Marriage". 

The truth of the matter is not many couple will talk about sex openly and honestly; however we couldn't agree more that sex is very very important in a marriage. It marvelously expresses and deepens the love between husband and wife. And love is, of its very nature, life giving. 

Sex is totally engaging, and it is personal. Because each of us is a unique person and make us an unique couple, the intimate unions of our hearts, minds, and bodies will also be special and unique, so this week's exercise was for us to speak openly with our fiancé/fiancee about our thought on sex and discuss about our beliefs, attitudes, and expectation for a love relationship. And lastly share our thoughts on having children. 

As usual, some meaningful reading of the night :

Actually, sex has very little to do with organs and technique. It has everything to do with where we are with each other in our overall life together: the good morning kiss, the way we talk to each other, the look in our eyes, the way we touch, talking everything over, not being able to wait to be with the other person. These are just as important to our sexual experience of each others as the most intimate cares at night. That's it. That is the name of the game when it comes to sex. The more you are really involved with each other all day long in every way, the more exciting and delightful sex will be for you two. 

A sexual relationship has the power to give life. That power is what makes sexual communication the most meaningful expression of who a husband and wife are to each other. To conceive a child is to say, "I commit myself to you; I belong to you in a unique way, and you and our children are the center of my universe." It is to say, "I really believe that you and I are so responsible that we intend to trust each other completely" 

When it comes to deciding whether or not to create life from their love, a man has no right to ask a woman to become pregnant unless he is also willing to be a full time father. It has to be a couple pregnancy, not just the woman's. If a man is thinking about being a father, he has to ask himself if he is willing to be as involved in the raising of the children as he expects his wife to be. If his answer is no, then he really should ask himself if he is ready to marry her. 

Marriage Preparation Course - Class 3

We've learnt how to discover the true beauty of the one we love from the first two classes, and the 3rd class is about what does marriage really means in Catholicism; hence the "God and Marriage".

Catholicism view marriage as a permanent and life long commitment between a man and woman; and it's one of the deepest sources of happiness. Our Father asks us to believe that marriage is of the utmost importance to Him because He wants so much for His child. He wants us to fulfill each other's deep human need to love and to be loved... for a lifetime.

I don't want to get into too much details of the Catholicism. Nonetheless regardless of your religion, it's a beautiful thing to have a special person to go through your life journey with you; and you will be longing to be present in his/her life journey of "worse, the poverty, and the sickness" as part of the wedding vows. Marriage is not just a piece of paper, it's for you to realize what it is to be "bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh", it's holy and it's lifelong.

Marriage Preparation Course - Class 2

The second class was "Communications in Love". In the beginning of the class, we were being told to look into the eyes of our fiancé for a minute. It's funny that I couldn't help but tear while I look into Danny's eyes. I can't explain why but I just felt touched. I recalled so much of what we have gone through in the past, it was like just happened yesterday while we just knew each other. Did we never look into each other's eyes like this before? It doesn't ring a bell, I won't be surprised if this is the first time we do so, try this with your beloved.

The class start with this reading - "The best gift we can give to the person we want to spend our life with is ourselves. In giving ourselves, however, the way in which we do it is of vital importance. If we are careless, much of what we say and do can be miscommunicated. But if we really work at it, we can communicate our personhood to each other in a beautiful ways, and our daily lives can be filled with intimacy and closeness. To make this communication a reality, we have to be committed to revealing ourselves to each other. "

However some of us might not even understand ourselves enough, hence the opening exercise is for us to examine ourselves honestly, so we can look at ourselves and discover our worth. The exercise with questions such as : what are the things you like best about yourself, you don't like yourself when .., ares of your personhood that you want to improve, a compliment you received recently and etc.  It's funny that one of the question "Three talents I have", both danny and I left it blank coz we can't think of any talents we have. :D

Then the second exercise is meant to help the couple to get a little better acquainted and, at the same time, to have some fun. It's a list of daily habit and you are suppose to check those for yourself, such as : do you pick your nose, do you bite your nails, are you a picky eater, do you pass gas often, do you burp, and etc. This exercise is to let your fiancé know more about your habit so it will not cause surprise, irritation, or even serious difficulty when two person going to stay together after married.

Some meaningful reading of the night :

Personal communication means talking about you, me, and us instead of about things, events, and other people. Personal communication is heart-to-heart, conversation is merely head-to-head. The tragic reality is that too many couples do not really get to know each other until after they are married, they sail through their engagement believing that the other person is going to change and fit the dream. Then one day they find out they never did know each other, and they file for divorce. 

Some couple say they want to get to know each other by living together before they are married. The truth of the matter is, there is no such thing as a trial marriages. Any human relationship is based solely on the level of commitment two people had to each other. If my commitment to a person is one in which I have one foot out the back door so that I can leave when I become displeased with that person, then it is not a permanent commitment. There is no way I can practice or pretend that I will love my beloved, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, until death do us part. I am committed to this or I am not. 

Listening. In its deepest sense, listening means that you are fully present to your fiancé, that he or she has one hundred percent of your attention. Listening means you want to experience what your fiancé is experiencing when he or she speaks. Listening is what you do in order to hear more of your fiancé than just his or her words. It puts you in touch with your beloved as a person.

If my fiancé say that he or she does not want to go to the party tonight, what do I hear? If I am really listening, perhaps I hear the need for just the two of us to be alone. One of the strongest reason for not listening is that I really do not wan to hear what my fiancé has to say when his or her words conflict with my expectation. My inward focus on my feelings, desires and needs can make me miss the most meaningful words of my life. If my focus is on me, then when you tell me that you love me I will heard how you can fulfill me and meet my needs. But will I hear your need to be loved by me?

In oder for me to become a better listener for you, I have to change. You have to help me change. You had to help me know what makes you feel more at ease, more understood, and more important. You also have to help me to be more aware of when and how I am not listening.

Marriage Preparation Course - Class 1

I have been reminded myself to blog about the Marriage Preparation Course Danny and me is going to attend before we have started it; yet I've been procrastinating til now where it's been 3 weeks we have gone through it. Bad habit! now I'm trying so hard to recall what has been shared for the past 3 weeks. :p

The Marriage Preparation Course is a Catholic Programme to assist couple prepare for their married life. There is no teaching during the session, it's merely a sharing session from every couples participate; and there are some reading and exercise to assist you in discovering further in yourself and your fiance, as well as spending time together to talk honestly about your expectation in coming marriage life.

Despite the troublesome for us to travel from Singapore to Seremban every week to attend this; it's overall quite interesting. Although Danny and I have been together for years, but how often can we really spend time like this in telling each other how do we feel and what do we expect. A lot of time in the session I felt touched and surprised on the view of Danny in me or marriage.

The first session was "Love in Marriage". Firstly, they distribute a couple pak to us with a list of personal characteristics, as eg : stubborn, possessive, loyal, loving, lazy, fun and etc... I'm suppose to rate myself and Danny in each of the personal characteristic, and Danny to do the same as well. Then we exchange. From this exercise, I'm surprised how differently Danny think about me than I think about myself. No, it's not that he doesn't understand me but rather I've never realize it. After this exercise I learn to be more observant and sensitive, and I realize why Danny see me in that way and it also helps me discover more about him from his rating.

The second exercise is to do a questionnaire to reveal your expectation in marriage. Such as do you expect the husband to wear the pants in the family all time or a 50/50 proposition, or does the husband expect the wife to be submissive to his ambitions, or the wife expect companionship from the husband all time and etc. This exercise does not mean to list out what do you want your husband/wife to follow, but it's to tell your expectation honestly and try to compromise. After all, relationship or marriage is all about compromising. I'm happy Danny and myself are quite compatible in this sense as we are having similar expectation in marriage.

After the exercises, there are some readings and sharing, each of the couple were asked to share how they knew each other and how they know he/she is the one. It's a very warmth atmosphere knowing each couples has been through a lot to reach their current stage and now they (us as well :)) are tying the knots. Some good reading of the night :

To love is a decision. If a couple bases their love for each other on their feelings, their love will be something that comes and goes. Feeling are simply not dependable. If love is a feeling, then the only thing we can do is enjoy it while it comes and hope for it to come back soon when it's not there.

When my love is based on the feelings I'm experiencing at that time, I become focused on myself rather than on the person I love. I respond to what pleases me, to what turns me on. I focus on personal needs. When both people in a relationship do this, sooner or later they will 'grow out of love', just as they 'grew in love'.

If love, however, is the decision to focus away from myself and on my beloved, then I'm in full control of love. Love becomes something I can choose to have at any moment of my life. I can choose to focus on my beloved not just when our romance is at its peak, but when I feel angry, resentful, hurt, or depressed. 

Romance is God's way of having us begin to be less self-centered and more other-centered. As such, romance is important, and we should strive to keep it in our lives no matter how long we are married. But we also have to recognize that on those days when romance and tender feelings are absent, we can still decide to love.

3rd week and counting

It's my 3rd week on board; I've started handling some cases on my own now. Pressure pressure. ~

Well, after working on Oracle for 7 years since my first job, now I'm with Oracle and I'm even selling it now.. Honestly I'm quite happy to join Oracle; however I'm really struggling now. I never know it sells sooooooooo many kind of products, and definitely have no experience in selling. Luckily I dealt with client a lot when I was in Accenture, at least I won't be struggling too much on this part.

So far I still find this job interesting. A lot to learn and it provide a good career growth to me. BUT, I miss my expat life. Ahhhh~~ I wish I have ever got chance to travel again for work assignment, slim chance for now, too bad, :(

first page of new chapter

It's my first week in SG. I got so much to tell but I'm not used to this Mac OS with Danny's macbook. I'll try my best to jot down all in my mind right now.

First of all, life in SG is not as bad as I thought. Honestly I was reluctant to come here initially. I was afraid I can't get used to taking public transport, or stay with other people (sorry it's not other people, it's Danny's family, but what I mean is not staying just Danny and myself in a house), and of course the biggest worry of me is to leave Goppy behind at my hometown. Of course I'm still upset by not having Goppy by my side now, but I will work hard and save money so that we can bring him over one day! Ganbate!!

Ok, so like what I mentioned, life in SG is not as bad as I thought. Taking MRT is alright, its easier than me going to carpark from office while I was in KL, I think mainly due to the air conditioned and sense of security with the surrounding. Danny's brother and housemate are really helpful and friendly, Danny himself is being so supportive I'm so touched by his gesture, such as small small thing like sending me to office on my first day of work, helping me to carry my bag while we are walking home from MRT station, queue up and buy food for me in the food court and etc etc etc etc etc I cant list down all here. I am blessed and I truly feel I'm a super lucky girl.

Workwise, there are so much to tell but I dunno where to start. I will leave it for next time when I'm not using this laptop...I really find it hard to use this mac laaaaaa... gonna stop now..okthxbai

Photobook 2.0

Just got my 2nd photobook. This time is for the twice Lang Tengah diving trip with Danny and Vietnam trip with the peeps. :D. I spent about a week in doing it, slightly shorter than my previous book. Overall I'm quite happy with the outcome except the cover, a bit too plain I guess; and the back cover is quite "messy" too due to the mud and grass in the photo. Phew, so now I've finished my vouchers! guess won't be doing version 3.0 in near future unless I'm going for another holiday. Haha.

Front cover. :)

Back cover, dun really like it... quite "messy" due to all the mud and grass in the photo. 

First page. Start with our first Lang Tengah trip back in 2009.

one of my fav page. :)

done with first Lang Tengah. Continue with 2nd trip to the same place after 2 years. :D

♥ this.. so pinky and sunshiney. :)

sunset @ Lang Tengah, bliss~

under the sea! I have another page filled with all the underwater photos.  ♥  . 

the end of Lang Tengah part. :)

Vietnam trip with the peeps. Real fun!

super photos with the peeps. haha

Indeed!

Cycling and boating at Tam Coc, Vietnam

Sapa @ Vietnam. Still the place with most beautiful nature scene in my list

the unforgettable  2 days trekking experience in Sapa. It's tiring but it's all worth it! :)

the homestay at hill tribe village

I'm leaving on a jet plane again

One more week I'm leaving to Singapore. I'm so nervous now, not just about moving to a new place, but my new job. It's something so new to me I have no idea will I like it or not or worst case what if I can't cope with it. The closer it gets to the date, the more worried I am. :S

I will miss Goppy badly :(..... I will miss my lovely home too... I will miss my family... I will miss my friends here... I know it's not very far to travel from SG back to KL but we will definitely have lesser time to meet up. :( .. I will miss ... I will just miss everything in Malaysia. :(

For you, my dear :)

d' proposal

On the summit of Eiffel tower, with comfy breeze blowing to my face, breathtaking night scene, a surprise ring from tiffany&co... everything seems so perfect. I can't believe this has happened to me. I am so touched.

If I've not say it enough, thank you dear for giving me such a sweet marriage proposal. The blue little box put on a smile on my face everytime I look at it, it's a gift of a lifetime and I'll cherish it forever. :)

my BIG project - photobook

This is indeed a BIG project of mine, I've been spending weeks in doing this photobook of our vacations in Paris and Korea. It's actually a surprise gift from me for Danny. He was wondering what was I doing whole day in front of my laptop even on weekend; somemore with my privacy screen filter on. And I always answered him I'm chatting or facebooking. :p, luckily he didn't bother to keh poh and peek at my screen while he is busy with his PS3. After weeks of working on it, he finally received the parcel to his address in Singapore....

the front cover

the back cover

first page

Korea trip

skiing at Korea

Disneyland at Paris~

the Eiffel tower!

Paris trip

Paris trip

My beloved country

It was a fine day. I came out from Giant in Bandar Puteri after my groceries shopping. I took an illegal turn to avoid the traffic jam ahead. Soon after, a police car popped out and stopped me. Ahhhhh shit, I mumbled under my breath... the policeman asked for my driving license and told me I just did a serious offense and the summons can cost me RM300... well fair enough, I did commit the traffic offence so I am prepared for the summon. Then the policeman remind me again its a serious offense and the summon is expensive bla bla bla, I just nod my head while handing my driving license to him... I knew he is dropping me hints for the duit kopi, I pretend naive because I hate doing this in encouraging the unhealthy trend. Perhaps he think I really couldn't get what he mean, he finally told me directly "saya tolong u settle mau tak?"... then I said "tak apa, saman je.."... still he attempt to scare me with the "expensive" summon, while I insist it's fine and I want the summon, at last the policeman let me go without issue me one. I don't know shall I feel glad for being lucky this round. After he return me the driving license, he still trying "betul-betul tak nak belanja saya minum ke?"... -_-'''... sigh~~~ sad but true, this is my beloved country.. 

study !!!!